Välkommen!
Hello, I’m Åsa Nilsson.
Together with my husband, Thomas Kindberg, we guide individuals and families through the thoughtful process of Swedish Death Cleaning — bringing clarity, order, and peace to what can otherwise feel overwhelming.
This work is not about death.
It is about care.
Care for your home.
Care for your loved ones.
Care for the life you are living now.
Whether you’re supporting an aging parent, navigating loss, or simply ready to lighten your own load, we offer steady guidance with discretion, structure, and deep respect for your story.
Creating space in your home creates space within you.
And you don’t have to begin alone.
How We Work
We guide you through your home — one space at a time — using our structured Swedish Death Cleaning method.
You remain the decision-maker.
We provide the clarity, framework, and steady support.
Our philosophy is simple:
Leave no mess behind.
Not for yourself. Not for the people you love.
We approach every project with care, discretion, and a deep respect for both your belongings and your story.
Ways to Work With Us
In-Home Support (Sweden only)
We work alongside you, hands-on, creating order with calm and efficiency.
Virtual Guidance (Worldwide)
You do the physical work; we guide you step-by-step online.
Digital Workbook
A self-paced tool to help you organize your life, documents, and legacy — so you can begin immediately, on your own terms.
Asking for help takes courage.
We’re here to make the process lighter — structured, compassionate, and fully supported.
What We Can Achieve Together
- You will have more freedom and peace in your life.
- You will have more money in your wallet and bank account because you will know what you own and stop buying duplicates of everything because you can’t find it.
- You will have a game plan because you will have your very important documents filled out so that your loved ones know what your final wishes are.
- You will have better, truer relationships because a part of decluttering your life ALSO includes decluttering people who are no longer part of your solution.
- You will have better overall health because you are taking better care of your body temple.
- Staying conscious and making better decisions through heightened awareness.
- You will have a closer relationship with your loved ones because you are smart and share your heart with them NOW.
- You set yourself free and possibly, in turn, set others free.
- You will have more time on your hands because you have order in your life.
- You will have more anti-perspirant left since you don’t blow it every morning, running around, trying to find your keys, wallet, or purse. Ha!
Who Are We?
Åsa – Born in Sweden and raised in the USA, I’ve spent decades navigating the fast-paced world of corporate life. But in 2011, I felt a deep calling to return to my roots—and to something more meaningful. Armed with years of experience in business and supporting people from all walks of life, I set out on a new path. I began as a life coach working internationally, and over time, that journey naturally evolved into something even deeper: death coaching through the sacred practice of Swedish Death Cleaning.
Thomas – A true Swede through and through (though just as fluent in English as I am!), spent many years in banking before answering his own inner call to shift into primary education. Now retired from teaching, he’s joined me full-heartedly in this work—bringing his unique wisdom and warmth into our shared mission as Swedish Death Cleaners.
We may not hold formal titles in psychology, psychiatry, or shamanism—but what we do have is a lifetime of real-world experience. We’ve led businesses, guided individuals through transformation, and held space for people during some of their darkest and most vulnerable moments.
And that’s what makes us different.
We’re here to support you—not just in preparing for death, but in creating a life that feels lighter, clearer, and more aligned. Whether you’re organizing your affairs, letting go of emotional clutter, or seeking a fresh start—we walk beside you, gently and respectfully, every step of the way.
We’re here for the heavy stuff. The meaningful stuff. The soul-level stuff. Let’s make space for what matters most—together.
How It Works
Step 1: Book a Discovery Call
We begin with a complimentary call to understand your situation, your goals, and where you feel stuck.
Step 2: Choose Your Format
If you live in Sweden, we can work with you in person in your home.
If you live elsewhere, we guide you virtually — with the same structure and care.
Step 3: Begin, One Space at a Time
Whether hands-on in Sweden or online worldwide, we move through your home methodically and thoughtfully. You remain the decision-maker. We provide the framework, direction, and steady support.
This is collaborative work.
We don’t do it for you — we do it with you.
If you’re ready to create clarity, lighten the load, and leave no mess behind, we would be honored to guide you.
Investment
Swedish Death Cleaning is not about tidying a drawer.
It is about making decisions that bring peace — now and for the people you love.
This work requires courage. Presence. Trust.
And when done well, it changes how you live.
We treat it accordingly.
What We Offer:
The Exhale
8-Session Virtual Journey (Worldwide)
A private, structured, deeply supported experience designed to guide you step-by-step through your Swedish Death Cleaning process — wherever you live.
Includes:
• 8 private 60–90 minute sessions
• Personalized session roadmap
• Accountability support between sessions
• 13-Card Life Wheel Reading
• Digital legacy workbook
• Closing completion ceremony
This is not a course.
This is not a group program.
This is a partnership.
The Exhale – Private In-Home Experience (Sweden)
For those who desire hands-on, immersive, in-person guidance.
This is our most personal and exclusive offering. We work beside you in your home — holding space for both the practical and emotional layers of the process.
Includes:
• Full 8-session journey in person
• On-site sorting and decision support
• Emotional and practical guidance
• Light meal or grounding breaks together
• Follow-up integration support
Limited availability each year.
🌿 Bonus Gifts with 'The Exhale'
As part of ‘The Exhale’ journey, you’ll also receive:
✨ 13-Card Life Wheel Tarot Reading
A focused pre-journey reading designed to clarify your intentions and illuminate the themes guiding your decluttering process.
✨ Personal Accountability Support
Gentle check-ins between sessions via email or WhatsApp to keep you supported, steady, and moving forward.
✨ Digital Workbook: The Greatest Love Letter You’ll Ever Write
A guided end-of-life planning tool to help you organize important documents, clarify your wishes, and create peace of mind for yourself and your loved ones.
✨ Closing Ceremony
A meaningful completion ritual to honor your progress and anchor the transformation you’ve created.
Swedish Death Cleaning is not about getting rid of everything.
It is about creating space, clarity, and peace for this chapter of your life — and those who will follow.
We are honored to walk that journey with you.
Booking Time with Us
Depending on whether we will come to you and work alongside you in your home, or if we will meet digitally, everything starts with a conversation. Click below to Book Your Discovery Call.
Clients in Sweden
Small Spaces to Large Entire Home Projects.-
Includes 25% Swedish VAT Tax
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Vissa delar av våra tjänster kan ge RUT-avdrag, vilket innebär att du bara betalar 50 % av arbetskostnaden.
Clients Outside of Sweden
Virtual Guided 8 Session Journey-
Includes 25% Swedish VAT Tax
What You Can Expect When You Work With Us
Working with us is human.
Yes, we are talking about legacy, loss, and the reality of impermanence — but we do not believe the process needs to feel heavy all the time.
There will be laughter.
There will be stories.
There may be music playing in the background.
There may be pauses for tea, for breath, for a shared meal.
We bring lightness where it’s welcome — and steadiness where it’s needed.
Åsa sees the big picture and gently breaks it down into manageable, doable steps. Nothing overwhelming. Just one clear decision at a time.
Thomas brings a calm, grounded presence shaped by both personal loss and more than 25 years in banking. Conversations about grief, documentation, finances, and practical planning are met with experience, clarity, and compassion — not avoidance.
Between us, we carry decades of experience in banking, real estate, organization, and life transitions. We understand both the emotional and the practical sides of this work.
We love people. We love animals. We love gathering around a table. We love meaningful conversations. We believe life is meant to be lived fully — and that includes facing the tender topics with courage and heart.
Some conversations will feel vulnerable.
Some decisions may stir emotion.
But you will never carry them alone.
We can hold the space — so you can create peace now. Not someday. Now.
Because Swedish Death Cleaning isn’t about death.
It’s about making room for living.
And we would be honored to walk beside you.
