Välkommen!

Hello…

I’m Åsa Nilsson and together with my husband, Thomas Kindberg, we help people who want to bring their life into order but don’t quite know where to start and need some professional help.

Sit down for a moment and let’s talk about Swedish Death Cleaning. It’s not as morbid as it sounds, I promise.

Have you felt your busy life is so chaotic and you’re drowning in “I really have to do this but don’t have the time” moments or maybe you have an elderly parent and you know you need to help them but don’t know how to start with your busy schedule. 

Have you recently lost a loved one and need support with handling their belongings in your time of grief? 

Do you want to bring your affairs in order because you know you’ll die one day – as we all will, without exception – and don’t want to leave a mess behind for your loved ones?

Do you long for a cleaner, lighter living space today but don’t know what to keep and what to get rid of – and where does it all go?

Do you understand and agree that clutter is the physical manifestation of chaos in your mind? 

If your answer is ‘yes’ to some or all of the above, Thomas and I are the people you’ll want by your side to support you and guide you with sensitivity, empathy and gentleness through the process.

We are here to help you honor your past while embracing your future.

Feeling overwhelm and frustration is natural! The more cluttered your home is, the more cluttered your mind is. Let us help you start your Swedish Death Cleaning process. 

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You are not alone.

Together, we’ll go through your home—one room, one space at a time—clearing what no longer serves you and bringing order to both your home and your affairs using our proven Swedish Death Cleaning method. This can be done virtually or in person.

Bringing order to chaos is our joy. We work side by side with you, with you as the ultimate decision-maker. Our motto, “Leave no mess behind,” reflects our belief in Recycle – Reduce – Reuse and in rethinking your possessions now so your loved ones won’t have to later.

This work is our passion. We help you clear physical and emotional clutter with compassion and care. Sometimes Thomas joins me for larger projects—and yes, we travel worldwide.

Ways to work with us:
💫 Virtual Coaching & Cleaning – You do the hands-on work; we guide you step by step online.
💫 Digital Workbook – A self-paced tool to organize your life and legacy.
💫 VIP In-Home Packages – We come to you and do the work alongside you.

We know asking for help can be hard. That’s why we’re here—to support you fully, without judgment, as you transform your home, your life, and your peace of mind.

What We Can Achieve Together

  • You will have more freedom and peace in your life.
  • You will have more money in your wallet and bank account because you will know what you own and stop buying duplicates of everything because you can’t find it.
  • You will have a game plan because you will have your very important documents filled out so that your loved ones know what your final wishes are.
  • You will have better, truer relationships because a part of decluttering your life ALSO includes decluttering people who are no longer part of your solution.
  • You will have better overall health because you are taking better care of your body temple.
  • Staying conscious and making better decisions through heightened awareness.
  • You will have a closer relationship with your loved ones because you are smart and share your heart with them NOW.
  • You set yourself free and possibly, in turn, set others free.
  • You will have more time on your hands because you have order in your life.
  • You will have more anti-perspirant left since you don’t blow it every morning, running around, trying to find your keys, wallet, or purse. Ha!

Who Are We?

Åsa – Born in Sweden and raised in the USA, I’ve spent decades navigating the fast-paced world of corporate life. But in 2011, I felt a deep calling to return to my roots—and to something more meaningful. Armed with years of experience in business and supporting people from all walks of life, I set out on a new path. I began as a life coach working internationally, and over time, that journey naturally evolved into something even deeper: death coaching through the sacred practice of Swedish Death Cleaning.

Thomas – A true Swede through and through (though just as fluent in English as I am!), spent many years in banking before answering his own inner call to shift into primary education. Now retired from teaching, he’s joined me full-heartedly in this work—bringing his unique wisdom and warmth into our shared mission as Swedish Death Cleaners.

We may not hold formal titles in psychology, psychiatry, or shamanism—but what we do have is a lifetime of real-world experience. We’ve led businesses, guided individuals through transformation, and held space for people during some of their darkest and most vulnerable moments.

And that’s what makes us different.

We’re here to support you—not just in preparing for death, but in creating a life that feels lighter, clearer, and more aligned. Whether you’re organizing your affairs, letting go of emotional clutter, or seeking a fresh start—we walk beside you, gently and respectfully, every step of the way.

We’re here for the heavy stuff. The meaningful stuff. The soul-level stuff. Let’s make space for what matters most—together.

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How Does It Work?

Ready to Begin?

The first step is simple — get in touch and book your free discovery call. Together, we’ll do a virtual tour of your home (or an in-person walk-through if you’re nearby) to see what needs attention and how we can best support you.

If it feels like a good fit, we’ll compare calendars and set a start date. Remember, this is hands-on work — you’ll be right there with us, making the decisions that matter most.

Whether it’s one room, one floor, or the whole home, we’ll create a flexible plan tailored to your needs. We work digitally with clients all over the world and travel for in-person projects, from Stockholm to Spain, Los Angeles to Örebro.

We don’t work for you, we work with you. Taking responsibility and making choices is part of the process — and part of the transformation. If that resonates, we’d be honored to walk this journey with you.

The Details


The Exhale

A Guided Journey to Peace, Order, and Clarity

The Exhale is our proven 8-module Swedish Death Cleaning program that helps you bring order to your home — and calm to your heart. We move together from the simplest spaces to the deepest ones, following a clear, structured path that keeps you focused, on track, and supported every step of the way.

You’ll begin to feel peace and progress quickly as your home — and your energy — shift into alignment.

How The Exhale Works:
8 Modules – One 60-minute session per module (weekly or bi-weekly).
Structured Flow – We start small and simple, gradually moving into more emotional and meaningful spaces.
Spiritual Foundation – Each session begins with a Tarot pull, and before we start, you’ll receive a full Life Wheel Tarot spread to guide your journey.
Accountability + Support – You’ll receive step-by-step guidance to stay organized and complete the process with ease.
Partnership with Spirit – This is more than decluttering; it’s a sacred process of release and renewal. Together — you, us, and Spirit — we clear not just “stuff,” but stories, attachments, and transitions.

Whether we work virtually or in person, The Exhale is designed to help you breathe easier, feel lighter, and reclaim peace in your home and life.

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Bonus

🌿 Bonus Gifts with ‘The Exhale’

As part of The Exhale journey, you’ll also receive:

13 card ‘Life Wheel’ Tarot Reading – A powerful pre-journey reading that sets your focus and energy for the work ahead.
Accountability Check-Ins – Gentle encouragement between sessions via email or WhatsApp to keep you aligned and supported.
Digital Workbook: “The Greatest Love Letter You’ll Ever Write” – A guided end-of-life planning tool to help you organize your wishes, documents, and legacy.
Closing Ceremony – A spiritual blessing and celebration of your transformation.

Swedish Death Cleaning is a lifelong practice of peace and clarity — and we’re honored to help you begin.

Booking Time with Us

Depending on whether we will come to you and work alongside you in your home, or if we will meet digitally, everything starts with a conversation.

In Sweden: Our minimum package is 5 hours and from there we can book in increments of 5 (s0 10, 15, 20… hours).*

For international projects that require travel, we kindly ask for a minimum 30-hour commitment, along with coverage of travel and accommodation costs. 

Clients in Sweden

Small Spaces to Large Entire Home Projects. 5 hour minimum for any project.
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  • Includes 25% Swedish VAT Tax
  • Vissa delar av våra tjänster kan ge RUT-avdrag, vilket innebär att du bara betalar 50 % av arbetskostnaden.

Clients Outside of Sweden

Multiple Rooms up to Entire Home Projects. 30 hour minimum where International Travel is Required.
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  • Includes 25% Swedish VAT Tax

What can you really expect…

Working with us will always be lighthearted. We love to have fun. We love to joke around. We love to eat. Åsa loves to sing. Thomas loves to drum. We love to listen. We love to share. Åsa loves to organize. We love to cook meals together for us and for you. Thomas loves to lift heavy things. We both are madly in love with animals.

Åsa loves to see the whole picture and break it down into small, bite-sized pieces. Thomas has a heart of gold and has experienced a lot of loss in his life and worked for over 25+ years in banking so he is well versed in speaking about death, sorrow, grief, financials, documentation, and planning. Åsa also has 10 + years  in banking, as well as 11+ years selling residential real estate so the experiences we offer run deep. 

We have a huge passion for traveling and meeting people from other cultures.

The conversations can be heavy at times talking about death, fears, concerns, wishes, wants… but one thing we are sure of is this… we can hold the space for you so that YOU can feel peace in your heart today. Not one day.

Life is for the living. So let’s enjoy it together.

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